If you’re feeling zapped, you’re in the right place.I help neurodivergents make sense of why life can feel so exhausting, especially those who often have lives without an off switch - like parents, partners, and people growing something of their own.If that's you, your goal shouldn't be to "do more" or "push harder."Like the hundreds of people I've coached, you need to first understand exactly where your energy is going and why.You can start right now with The POWER Assessment™It shows you where friction lives and what deserves your attention the most.
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My coaching is empathetic, educational, and engaging - grounded in research from positive psychology, neuroscience, and executive functioning.Translation: We get curious about what’s actually happening in your brain and body, name the patterns that are draining you, and build support systems that give you energy back instead of stealing it.I don’t do hustle-hard coaching or productivity bootcamps. And I definitely don’t believe more pressure is the answer.You don’t need another system to fail at. You need the right kind of support at the right level for your life right now.(Goldilocks would be proud of that last statement, I'm sure of it)Here’s how we can work together ↓
Curious what my clients have had to say about working with me?I gotchoo. Check out the following stories, screenshots, and feedback from people who were zapped and now have more energy and more self-trust.
For most of my life, I felt like I was living on hard mode.(You wouldn't have guessed if you met me because...hello people-pleasing)I was constantly drained, overwhelmed by daily life, and quietly convinced I was failing at things that seemed easy for everyone else. Relationships slipped through the cracks. My emotions felt unhinged. Organization felt impossible. I said yes when I meant no, avoided asking for help, and carried a constant hum of fear and self-doubt.I didn’t have language for it then, but in my mid-30s, I’d learn I’m both autistic and have ADHD (or AuDHD as it's more informally called).The real shift didn’t start with a diagnosis, though.It started when I stopped trying to “fix” myself, acknowledged both my strengths and limitations, and by seeking out support from someone who got how my brain actually works.Life didn’t magically get easy. But it did get lighter, clearer, and more sustainable.I recovered faster from burnout.
Shame stopped running the show.
And I finally had energy for the people and projects that mattered most.That experience is why I do this work.Today, I coach neurodivergents who are tired of being tired and are ready for relief. Most of my clients are people whose lives don’t have an off switch - parents, partners, and people growing something of their own.My coaching style blends lived experience, research-informed approaches, and deep curiosity to:▸ Loosen self-limiting beliefs
▸ Build systems your brain can sustain
▸ Understand what’s draining your energy and help boost itI’m certified by the FLOW Coaching Institute as a positive psychology coach, a certified Master NLP (Neurolinguistic Programming) Practitioner by the Complementary Therapists Accredited Association, and a former fitness and nutrition coach who saw firsthand how mindset and behavior change can create transformational results that not just change outcomes, but lives.Best and most of all, I’m a husband and dad of two in a proudly neurospicy household in the foothills of the Blue Ridge Mountains in North Carolina.I could end this on a heartfelt note and say it would be an honor to work with you (which is true), but instead I’ll say this:If your brain feels like it’s running a group project where no one knows the agenda, I’m probably your guy.Wanna chat? Hit me up ↓

The POWER Framework™ was built to answer one core question:Why can daily life feel so damn exhausting, even when you are trying your hardest?Over years of working almost exclusively with neurodivergent clients, I started noticing the same patterns show up again and again.Not personality flaws. Not motivation problems. Not a lack of effort.Patterns.Certain areas of life were quietly (or sometimes loudly) draining their mental and physical energy. Others were holding things together more than people realized. And when we stopped guessing and started paying attention to those patterns, everything got easier to work with.
The POWER Framework™ focuses on five core zones that shape how manageable or overwhelming daily life feels for neurodivergent people:▸ Prioritization
How decisions get made and what actually gets your attention▸ Organization
How systems support you or slowly steal your soul▸ Wellness
How nutrition, rest, movement, and sleep affect your bandwidth▸ Emotional Regulation
How emotions move through your day instead of hijacking it▸ Reframing Beliefs
The stories you carry about yourself that run the showThese zones are always operating - even when you are not thinking about them. Especially then.When one zone is under strain, the others feel it. When one zone is supported, the others get a boost as well.
When these areas are ignored, life feels heavy.Decisions take forever.
Emotions spike fast.
You second-guess yourself constantly.
Everything feels harder than it should.When these zones are given intentional attention, things start to feel lighter.Decisions use less energy.
Emotions settle faster.
You trust yourself more.
Progress replaces mental whiplash.Not because you became a different person, but because the system around you finally clicks.
The POWER Framework™ is grounded in research, not purely vibes.It is not another personality assessmentIt draws heavily from Dr. Russell Barkley’s research on executive functioning (including the BDEFS scale), alongside core principles from positive psychology researchers such as Dr. Martin Seligman and Dr. Caroline Leaf, and the teachings and research of Dr. Megan Anna Neff on neurodivergent burnout.Together, these foundations help identify:▸ Where mental energy is leaking
▸ Which habits and environments are creating friction
▸ Which patterns deserve support firstInstead of trying to fix everything at once, the framework helps you work smarter and kinder with your capacity.
To bring the framework to life, I created The POWER Assessment™.The assessment gives you two scores for each POWER zone:Zap scores show where habits, environments, or beliefs may be draining your energy or creating friction.Zest scores highlight where things already feel supportive, aligned, or easier to sustain.This matters because you do not start from zero. Ever.The assessment helps you see:▸ Where support would create the most relief
▸ What is already working in your favor
▸ Where starting will actually make a differenceNo guessing. No fixing the wrong thing first. No treating exhaustion like a character flaw.
Here’s one of the coolest parts.The POWER zones are deeply interconnected.When you increase Zest in one zone, it tends to reduce Zap in others.Support your beliefs and emotions regulate faster.
Support wellness and organization stops feeling impossible.
Support prioritization and decision fatigue eases across the board.It is less like juggling five separate balls and more like adjusting one gear that helps the whole machine run smoother.
I built the POWER Framework™ because I was tired of watching capable, caring, intelligent neurodivergent humans blame themselves for systems that never fit them.I needed it for myself.
My clients needed it even more.This framework gives language to lived experience, structure to self-understanding, and direction to change that does not require burning yourself out in the process.That’s the goal.Less fighting your brain.
More supporting it.
More zest.
Way less zap.If you are ready to see how this shows up in your own life, the POWER Assessment™ is the best place to start.Your brain will thank you.
A personalized snapshot of where your energy is going.This is for when you want someone to look at your POWER Assessment scores and say, “Yep, this makes sense,” then show you what to do with it.You get a written report plus an explanation video you can revisit anytime. It is like having your future self leave you a voice note that actually helps.This is a good fit if you ↓▸ You want a clear starting point without guessing
▸ You want to understand your patterns in plain language
▸ You want practical next steps that match your real life
▸ You love information when it is organized and usable
▸ You want support without committing to ongoing coachingNo shame. No spirals. No “good luck with that.”What’s included ↓▸ A personalized written POWER Pulse Report
▸ An explanation video (usually 20 to 30 minutes)
▸ What your Zap and Zest scores are really showing
▸ Where energy is leaking and where it is already supported
▸ What deserves your attention first so you do not try to fix everything at oncePricing:▸ Standalone report: $99
High-support coaching without calendars.This is for those seasons when life moves fast, your brain moves faster, and you do not want to wait a week to ask the question that is eating your brain right now.Bring it all. The messy middle. The spirals. The wins. The “why did I do that” moments. We work with real life as it happens, so you stop marinating in uncertainty and start moving with support.This works especially well if your brain hates scheduling and loves momentum.This is a good fit if you ↓▸ You want near-real-time support in without having to wait for an appointment
▸ You process best out loud and want someone to respond
▸ You keep getting stuck between “I know what to do” and “I cannot do it”
▸ You want accountability that feels supportive, not parental
▸ Your life is busy, unpredictable, or bothNo calendar gymnastics. No disappearing until your next appointment. Just ongoing coaching that fits your actual life.What’s included ↓▸ Unlimited voice/video/text messages via Marco Polo (preferred) or WhatsApp
▸ Response within 24 hours on weekdays (most of the time it's less)
▸ POWER Assessment™
▸ POWER Pulse Report
▸ Tools, prompts, and resources matched to what you are working on right nowPricing ↓▸ Weekly: $179 per week
▸ Month-to-month: $699 per month
▸ 3 months paid in full: $1999Use me as much and for as long as you need. We adapt as your life does.
A focused 50-minute coaching reset.This is for those moments when life feels loud, sticky, or slightly cursed and your brain keeps replaying the same five thoughts like a broken Spotify loop.Bring one thing. One situation. One mental knot you keep poking at. We zoom in together, name what is actually going on, and land on a next move your nervous system does not immediately reject.This is a good fit if you ↓▸ Want relief today, not a personal growth project
▸ Need help untangling one specific situation
▸ Are curious what it feels like to work together before committingNo contracts. No pressure. No “so how does that make you feel” while you silently scream.What’s included ↓▸ One 50-minute 1:1 coaching session
▸ Full focus on a single challenge or decision
▸ Practical next steps that fit your real life and current capacity
▸ 7 days of async coachingPricing ↓▸ Standalone session: $299If you are zapped and want momentum without overthinking it, start here.
Deep, steady support for real change.This is for when you are done playing whack-a-mole with the same patterns and quietly wondering why nothing ever sticks.POWER Path is long-enough, close-enough coaching to help you change how you think, respond, and live in a way your brain can actually sustain. We slow things down, look at the full picture, and build support that holds up under real-life pressure.This is not a quick reset. It is steady momentum with someone in your corner who gets your brain and does not disappear after one good conversation.This is a good fit if you ↓▸ Want lasting relief, not another short-lived insight
▸ Keep circling the same challenges and want to break the loop
▸ Are ready to invest in support that compounds over time
▸ Know your life needs structure and flexibility at the same timeWhat’s included ↓▸ Weekly or biweekly 1:1 coaching sessions (your choice)
▸ Unlimited async support via voice, video, or text
▸ POWER Assessment™
▸ POWER Pulse Report
▸ Tools, prompts, and resources tailored to your needsPricing ↓▸ Month-to-month (3-month minimum): $1299 per month
▸ 3 months paid in full: $3499If you want support that adapts as your life evolves, this is the path.
Real words from real humans below.
When you are looking for a coach, experience is better than book knowledge.However, when you combine both lived experiences and the science and knowledge behind those learnings, you have a dynamic coach that doesn’t tell you what to do but calls out your own knowledge and ability to see yourself better and not by giving the answers but by walking alongside you through the learning.Clay has experienced what he coaches and knows firsthand what those struggles can be. He has helped me realize things in me that can be better and others that I didn’t know I even had.- Robert H. | President, Home Port Collective

Clay has a remarkable ability to truly see his clients—not just their goals and challenges but their whole selves. His intuitive understanding of people on a profoundly human level sets him apart in the field.He approaches his sessions with compassion, attentiveness, and genuine curiosity. He creates a safe, nonjudgmental space where I felt heard, understood, and empowered to explore my path with clarity and confidence.What stands out most about Clay is his passion for helping others become the best versions of themselves. His commitment to their success goes beyond the typical coaching relationship, making him not just a coach but a true partner in their journey.If you’re looking for a life coach who combines keen insight, unwavering dedication, and a deeply human touch, Clay is the person you want by your side. I cannot recommend him highly enough.*- Kasey P. | ICF-Certified Coach

Being coached by Clay was so refreshing—like a drink of cool water at the end of a long HIIT workout.In my case, the HIIT workout was “trying to make progress on business tasks and practical challenges within my rabbit warren of an ADHD brain” and the drink of water was Clay walking me through how to use my own reward-based programming strategically instead of trying to fight against it.I went into the session feeling rather defeated about my lack of progress, and I came out of the session able to clearly see what steps to take next AND feeling excited about doing them.Total game changer!I've worked with other coaches before—great coaches who have helped me in a lot of ways—but this was different.It was like finally being able to have a conversation with someone who speaks my language after a lifetime of trying to translate every word I hear or say.- Kali J. | Certified Boundaries Coach

Clay is a master at helping you connect the dots. He has impeccable expertise in the areas of neurodivergence and how to navigate life as an individual, which comes across so clearly in his passion to help others in their own journeys.He’s super easy to talk to as he asks genuine questions to make you feel seen, heard, & understood. He reflects back to you what he sees & hears you experiencing in order to get to the core thoughts/feelings, acknowledge and validate those thoughts/feelings, and finally work with those thoughts/feelings to take action.His coaching style is very personal and creates a space of trust through acceptance & encouragement to be and do whatever works for you wherever and however you find yourself in life.- Mariah S. | UX Researcher & CX Consultant

Clay is a master at helping you connect the dots. He has impeccable expertise in the areas of neurodivergence and how to navigate life as an individual, which comes across so clearly in his passion to help others in their own journeys.He’s super easy to talk to as he asks genuine questions to make you feel seen, heard, & understood. He reflects back to you what he sees & hears you experiencing in order to get to the core thoughts/feelings, acknowledge and validate those thoughts/feelings, and finally work with those thoughts/feelings to take action.His coaching style is very personal and creates a space of trust through acceptance & encouragement to be and do whatever works for you wherever and however you find yourself in life.- Shirley H. | Founder, HA.WIC

Clay was giving away some coaching and I jumped at the opportunity.One of the most powerful conversations I've had in a while. It's amazing what even an hour can do.Great insights and takeaways. Excited for my continued growth and belief in myself.If you're looking for a stellar coach, definitely connect with Clay!- Dan L. | Sales Manager

I think this is more what I had expected my executive functioning coach to help me with, and she's five hundred dollars an hour.She never came close, in six months, to giving me the insight [Clay] gave me in thirty minutes.The type of insight [Clay] provided was like...I've never felt so seen and understood. And I have been going to therapy for the last five years consistently.I've had parent coaching. I've had executive functioning coaching. [Clay was] so precise based on the results of the assessment on what exactly is going on.I could see in real time, as I was watching the video, the power of the recommendations that [Clay was] making.And I could already start to see how those would be massive unlocks.- Andrea W. | Parenting Coach
